
“Why didn't I do this sooner?"
Why didn’t I do this sooner?
This question was the theme of my summer in 2019. I put off tasks because they seemed too difficult, too laborious or because I just didn't know how to begin solving the problem. I wanted the benefits of the solutions, but I had been waiting to have enough time, energy or motivation to tackle them. Of course, neither of these ever came.
Business Book Club: The Self-Evolved Leader
I've set myself a goal to read one self-development book per month. To make sure I truly reflect on what I'm reading I'm going to extract the wisdom from the best business and personal development books and share it with you.
This time, I've been reading The Self-Evolved Leader - Elevate Your Focus and Develop Your People In a World That Refuses To Slow Down by Dave Mckeown
The Joy of More Effort
Imagine doing an entire day of work just to take 6 pictures. I don't mean an entire day of work to get 6 perfect pictures. I mean, taking the whole day to get 6 low-resolution pictures.
Business Book Club: Habits of a Happy Brain
I've set myself a goal to read one self-development book per month. To make sure I truly reflect on what I'm reading I'm going to extract the wisdom from the best business and personal development books and share it with you.
This time, I've been reading Habits of Happy Brain by Loretta Breuning, PhD
Business Book Club: Love Happier
I've set myself a goal to read one self-development book per month. To make sure I truly reflect on what I'm reading I'm going to extract the wisdom from the best business and personal development books and share it with you.
This time, I've been reading Love Happier: The Art and Practice of Relationship by Magali Peysha
Business Book Club: Tipping Point
I've set myself a goal to read one self-development book per month. To make sure I truly reflect on what I'm reading I'm going to extract the wisdom from the best business and personal development books and share it with you.
This time, I’ve been reading The Tipping Point by Malcolm Gladwell
"That wasn't the reaction I expected": Using the 3Ps to get the response you want
"That wasn't the reaction I expected!”
Whether it’s with partner, coworker, friend or family member, we’ve all had moments like this. Moments where a seemingly normal adult conversation becomes a tense exchange. It’s easy to get drawn into a defensive back and forth. Here I explain how 3 Ps can help you have the impact you intended.
Two Types of Trust: Becoming a Trusted Advisor
”I love that my clients tell me about their love lives”
This came from a coaching client of mine who says she doesn't like to promote herself. Yet she is never short of work due to word of mouth recommendations. So how does someone who doesn't like self-promotion get referrals? And how are her clients love lives relevant?
Business Book Club: Think and Grow Rich
I've set myself a goal to read one self-development book per month. To make sure I really reflect on what I'm reading I'm going to extract the wisdom from the best business and personal development books and share it with you. This time I’ve been reading Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill
Business Book Club: Rich Dad Poor Dad
I've set myself a goal to read one self-development book per month. To make sure I really reflect on what I'm reading I'm going to extract the wisdom from the best business and personal development books and share it with you.
This month I’ve been reading Rich Dad Poor Dad: Robert Kiyosaki
My 6-week theory
A few years ago I came up with my 6-week theory.
It goes like this:
Whenever you start a new activity, stick at it for at least 6 weeks.
That's it-no quitting before week 6.
Business Book Club: Sleight of Mouth By Robert Dilts
I've set myself a goal to read one self-development book per month. To make sure I really reflect on what I'm reading I'm going to extract the wisdom from the best business and personal development books and share it with you.
This month I’ve been reading Sleight of Mouth: The Magic of Conversational Belief Change by Robert Dilts
Three thoughts that will make bad times worse
We can all get on a bit of a downer sometimes. That’s only natural and it happens to everyone from time to time. The important thing though, is how we explain how we explain those down times to ourselves. This is the difference between having a bad day and sliding in a bad week or month. There are three thoughts we tell ourselves about these moments that will make any bad time worse. The good news is that knowing this, and doing something about it, can lift you out of funk pretty quickly too.
Business Book Club: The Power of When
I've set myself a goal to read one self-development book per month. To make sure I really reflect on what I'm reading, I'm going to extract the wisdom from the best business and personal development books and share it with you.
This month I’ve been reading: The Power of When by Michael Breus, PhD.
Three Words to Improve Any Relationship
Improve any relationship with just three words. No, not “I love you” but “Just Like Me”. In this blog I explain how these three words can make a huge difference.
Business Book Club: The ones that didn't make it
You may have been following my business book club blog over the last 12 months, where I've been reviewing the best self-improvement and business books and sharing the knowledge with you. What you might not know, is that there are a number of books that didn't quite make it. Not only did I read 12 books over the course of the year, I actually attempted a few more that I didn't get around to reviewing. So to finish off last years book blogging I've decided to give you an overview of the ones that didn't quite make it.
10 Tips for Resolving Resolutions
10 tips, slightly different viewpoints on how to set resolutions or goals for the New Year.
It's the time of year when people tend to set some new year's resolutions, so I thought I'd share some top tips about how to set better new New Year's resolutions and set goals that you're more likely to stick to throughout 2019.
Business Book Club: The Barcelona Way
I've set myself a goal to read one self-development book per month. To make sure I really reflect on what I'm reading I'm going to extract the wisdom from the best business and personal development books and share it with you.
This month I’ve been reading The Barcelona Way by Damian Hughes
Business Book Club: Quiet Leadership
I've set myself a goal to read one self-development book per month. To make sure I really reflect on what I'm reading I'm going to extract the wisdom from the best business and personal development books and share it with you.
This month I’ve been reading Quiet Leadership by David Rock
Getting out of a drama
Have you ever got caught up in someone else’s drama and found yourself thinking “How on earth did I get sucked into this?”. If you have then chances are that you have been drawn into a drama triangle.
I got geekily excited when I saw this being used to describe the conflict between characters in the BBC drama The Cry recently, although it occurred to me that many viewers might not understand why the main character Joanna was being asked about a triangle by a psychologist. Here I explain what that triangle is all about.